Saw this coming to a while ago. I don’t blame the guy. I think it’s smart. Sadly the world has changed. Even if you do nothing, it just takes an individual coming back, so 30 years from now and saying x,y,z and you’re destroyed. If You’re An Uptight Non Cussing Fancy Schmancy Nurse. Don’t think this guy is being unreasonable. It’s 15 hours in a car, along with another woman. Plenty of time to justify almost any false story. I wouldn’t want to be alone with him in the first place, but if a chaperone is a deal-breaker for this guy then why not have his wife take on that role? Problem solved.